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Welcome To My Secret Garden
Friday, September 07, 2007
Whilst still in the blue-y mood, I heard over the radio about a girl who is going out with a man 20 years her senior... Well, I have nothing against the idea of going out with a man 20 years my senior but in her situation, she is not allowed to behave intimately with him in the public... The whole story sounds pretty dubious... Feels like its more of an affair than a relationship... I wonder...
I have no idea how I should comment on this. I personally feel that she should find out more about her current situation... Its when you know the whole picture that you can decide if you want to carry on with whatever you are doing, isn't it? Be it a true love relationship or an affair, she has the every right to follow what her heart believes... In this kinda situation, no matter what others around her tells her to do, I bet she already has her mind set... So whatever it is, carry out your plan (at least you know that you tried).
Talking about having a relationship with an older man, someone asked me if I would mind being with a man 10 years my senior. I answered "Yes." without even having to think. What's wrong with being with a man 10 years older? "10 is merely a number", I said. What's important is if both really love eachother and comfortable with eachother, right? Like what I always hear, "If you always miss someone and you really wanna spend alot of time with that someone and you don't know the reason why. You are probably in love."
With love so great and strong, what is the number 10?
In fact, I am so attracted to older men! I love wise & witty men who can speak well! And I must say that older men in general are more wise & witty.... Maybe this has got to do with experience... Older men also tend to give more TLC to the girls. No idea why this is so, but its quite true!! Another more practical (or rather, a materialistic factor) is that older men have greater financial strength, and I cant deny this can be very attractive! With money, many things are possible (I am not thinking about LV bags here... I am thinking of the Long-run!!)
I remembered once, me and the girls were talking about what kinda factors do we consider in finding a BF. One of which is age. As much as we ponder about what is the ideal age of the men, it always fall in the scale of more than 4. So, its not only me who finds the attaction in older men.
Furthermore, there is this phenomena that all of us should be aware. Women's value depreciates as they age while men's appreciate with time. If you noticed, famous celebrities like Tony Leung and Andy Lau gets more suave as the years past! Its amazing! Older men are simply irrestible! Only men with age and experience can be considered eligible bachelors (EBs). Those so-called EBs featured in magazines, who are 20 year-odd, NSFs and students are not EBs, they are just mere eye-candies.
Eligible bachelor value (EBV) is directly related to time. EBs are hard to find and I am sure girls will hang on tight if they think they found their EB. Yes, hold on tight to your EB girls!!! (Just be careful not to strangle them) Its works the same to a handful of sand, the tighter you try to hold it, more sand will just leak from your grip...
That's just a little 2 cents worth from me... Enjoy your weekend everyone!
With Love, Jas 12:00 AM
Jasmin Kee
CHIJ-OLGC, Cedar Girls' Sec Sch, CJC, SIM
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